When Jessica Guthrie’s mom, Constance, was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s disease at just 65 years old, Jessica was only 26. Nearly 12 years later, Jessica has experienced the caregiving journey through changing routines, wandering, researching memory care, hiring in-home caregivers, moving back into her childhood home, hospice and now providing around-the-clock care for her mom in the advanced stages of Alzheimer’s.
In this deeply personal conversation, Jessica returns to Desperately Seeking Senior Living to share what that journey has really looked like - including the things she wishes she had known earlier.
✓ Why Jessica ultimately left her life in Texas and moved home to Virginia
✓ How routines and a familiar environment helped her mom
✓ Why dementia caregiving requires trying, adjusting and trying again
✓ Her experience researching memory care and in-home care
✓ What families should know when hiring caregivers
✓ Why the energy caregivers bring into the room matters
✓ The reality of caring for someone with advanced Alzheimer’s
✓ How Jessica thinks about hospice and the end of life
✓ The unexpected people who became part of her caregiving support system
✓ Why an Alzheimer’s diagnosis doesn’t mean joy, connection and making memories have to end
Jessica also shares a powerful reminder for family and professional caregivers: you are the thermostat. The energy you bring into the room can help set the temperature for the person receiving care. And perhaps her most important message? A diagnosis is not the end. It can be an invitation to get closer, be present, continue making memories and keep finding moments of joy with the person you love. @jessica_c_guthrie
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🎙️ About Desperately Seeking Senior Living Hosted by Valerie Lynn Borgman, Certified Senior Advisor (CSA), Certified Placement and Referral Specialist (CPRS), and Dementia Capable Care Certified professional, this podcast helps families navigate senior living, assisted living, memory care, dementia care, caregiving and aging-related challenges. Helping families go from Desperate to Doable.

What happens when caregiving collides with the workplace?
In this episode of Desperately Seeking Senior Living, Valerie sits down with caregiving strategist and Alzheimer's advocate Jessica C. Guthrie to explore the business side of caregiving. Together, they discuss the challenges millions of working family caregivers face while balancing careers, caring for aging loved ones and navigating systems that aren't always designed to support them.
Jessica shares why empathy in leadership isn't just compassionate - it's essential. The conversation also explores the Family and Medical Leave Act (FMLA), psychological safety in the workplace and how employers, healthcare professionals and senior living providers can become stronger partners for family caregivers instead of unintentionally creating additional barriers.
Whether you're a family caregiver, an employer, a manager or a senior living professional, this episode offers valuable insight into understanding caregivers and creating workplaces and care systems where caregivers feel seen, supported and empowered.
In this episode, you'll learn:
Why working family caregivers often struggle in silence
How empathy from managers can transform the employee experience
What employers should understand about caregiver support
How healthcare and senior living professionals can better partner with families
Why caregivers deserve systems that work - not just sympathy
Be sure to join us next month when Jessica returns to share her deeply personal caregiving journey and the experiences that shaped her mission to make family caregivers visible and valued.
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For more than 20 years, Ed Taylor helped care for his grandmother through dementia - long before he ever considered himself a caregiver.
In this episode of Desperately Seeking Senior Living, Ed shares the realities of family caregiving, including navigating cognitive decline, managing crises, making difficult care decisions and balancing caregiving responsibilities with work and everyday life. Together, we discuss caregiver burnout, power of attorney, hospice, family dynamics and the challenges many families face when trying to do it all on their own.
Ed reflects on his "superhero cape" mindset that kept him carrying the weight of caregiving for years and explains why accepting help ultimately allowed him to return to his most important role: being a grandson.
Whether you're currently caring for a loved one with dementia or preparing for the future, this conversation offers practical insights, honest reflections, and encouragement for every family caregiver.
In this episode, we discuss:• Recognizing when caregiving has moved into crisis mode• Why power of attorney should be established before it's needed• Managing difficult family and sibling dynamics• The emotional impact of dementia on caregivers• Hospice myths and realities• How to know when it's time to ask for help• Why caregivers must prioritize their own well-being
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You moved your loved one into assisted living, signed the paperwork and finally exhaled… then came the phone call no family wants to receive: “We can no longer meet their care needs.” In this episode, Valerie breaks down why assisted living communities sometimes ask residents to move, what families need to know about aging in place, licensing and discharge notices and how to advocate if this happens to someone you love. This is an emotional topic that leaves many families feeling shocked, guilty or blindsided - but understanding the why behind these decisions can help families feel more prepared a little less overwhelmed and help make things a little more doable.
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You can do everything “right” and still walk away feeling unsure - and that doesn’t mean you failed. This episode gently walks you through the difference between something being wrong and something simply not being right for you. Because senior living isn’t just about care on paper - it’s about how that care feels, how it’s communicated, and how your family experiences it day to day. If you’ve ever had that gut feeling that something’s off, this will help you understand why -and remind you that trusting yourself is part of making this journey doable.
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Getting a call that your dad is being discharged from the hospital can send you straight into panic mode - especially when you know there’s no safe plan waiting at home. In this episode, we talk about why hospitals move so quickly, what “medically stable” really means, and the one powerful phrase that can help you slow things down safely. If you’ve ever felt rushed, pressured, or unsure during a discharge conversation, this episode will help you feel more prepared and more confident. You’re not being difficult - you’re advocating. ...and hopefully this episode makes it a little more doable!
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You tried everything. You rearranged your life, asked for help and honored your loved one’s wish to stay at home by bringing in in-home care. But what happens when it still isn’t working?
In this episode of Desperately Seeking Senior Living, host Valerie Lynn walks through the moment many families quietly reach: when in-home care no longer provides the safety, consistency or peace of mind it was supposed to bring. We talk about the hidden limits of in-home care, the warning signs families often ignore and why caregiver exhaustion is not a badge of honor...it’s a sign.
If you’re feeling stuck in the cycle of “something still isn’t right,” this episode is for you!
 
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Making decisions about senior living can feel overwhelming - especially when you’ve promised a loved one they could stay at home. When care needs change, families often feel rushed, guilty and afraid that one move means forever.
In this episode, I reframe senior living decisions through a gentler, more realistic lens: buying time. I walk through the path most families take - from in-home care to respite or short-term stays - and explain why needing more support doesn’t mean you failed or broke a promise. This conversation is about slowing the moment down, easing the pressure and remembering that clarity often comes after you give yourself permission to pause.
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